It was then, that life instilled the drive in me - the desire for the best and the understanding that anything is possible.

At 16, I left for Ireland to get a better education, improve my language and build a promising future. It was lonely, scary and upsetting ... but I had to "grow up" overnight which only cemented my understanding of responsibility even more.

A Bachelor degree in Business Management in Edinburgh and a career move to London followed.

First I was a sales manager for a global skincare company, and later a top head hunter in the oil & gas business where, without an ounce of knowledge in the technical aspects and the industry as a whole - a guaranteed failure. I had to rapidly study and apply the complexities of engineering, build a circle of contacts of high-ranking experts, gain the trust of leading companies and, as a result, status and income that I could only dream of.

Every new relationship failed and left a painful imprint that turned into fear of embarking on a new one. I became more and more disappointed, offended by life and did not understand why I deserved such experiences.

I had to choose - either my life or the continuation of being consumed by a false dream.

At first, simply consulted on, and later learning this science professionally, I solved a whole range of personal problems: I met a person who showed me what life is when in love, happiness and joy, regardless of material factors, built a successful career and contributed to the formation of an influential fashion team.

I began to live the life I always dreamt of. Free from previous destructive states: resentment, anger, frustration, jealousy. My life became conscious: with a vision of goals, respect for experience, gratitude and love. My income was constantly rising, and I began to allow myself clothes, bags, restaurants, travels.

On my ascension I and my husband wanted children, and we were ready for this step. I pictured myself as a mother and saw a beautiful family. But when I learned that I was pregnant, the mechanism of my life's law, hidden deep inside me, came into action. It launched reactions that I had never known before . Fear, anxiety and the thought that my husband would not be able to support us financially ate at me. (Our life complies with the same mathematical and physical laws that govern rocketry and the orbit of planets around the stars. The name of that law will be unique to every family.)

Life's law, the reactions it triggered and the fears it produced, provided an inevitable result — a miscarriage.

This situation made me realise the countless misconceptions we have about ourselves and our capabilities, about life, what truly governs it and how much natural power there is in each one of us that is available at our disposal at any moment in time.

My second pregnancy ( whilst studying psychogenetics) was completely different. The focus was shifted to ease, joy, energy, pleasure, the continuation of implementing plans and a quick natural birth. Just as nature intended. The result - my pregnancy attracted admiration, I received many compliments, continued to develop and do the things I love.

I discovered my passion, instead of blindly chasing a career I didn't truly want. Today I am a Psycho-geneticist, who's joy is to actively develop as a professional along the path I had been searching for for so long. My family is a strong team. This is not a gift from the heavens, it is determination, persistence and will to work for what we want.

Now I want to help others to see their capabilities, understand their life, take control of it, eliminate any undesired states and create a truly happy future which everyone continues to search for. But everything starts with I. You can not help others before you help yourself, no matter how much one tries running away from this truth.

Nothing is by chance or through a stroke of luck. Life can be an exciting adventure when we understand the process and purpose of every situation, when we take responsibility for what we think, say and do. Doing exactly this will guarantee you a prosperous and joyous future.

Anastasija Nunez